Hi guys:)
Before I start answering your questions, I'm gonna have to thank those people out there from all around the world sending emails to me asking for my advice or asking me to do a review on certain products.
Well~thanks a lot guys!:)
Really appreciate that!
So here's a few questions which I received asking about long distance relationship.
I know there's a lot of people out there who's having long distance relationship right now.
They are struggling and being patient for their next meeting.
So keep up the good work guys!:)
PS: It's gonna be a long post, so grab your favourite drinks guys and read the rest of my post:)
PS: It's gonna be a long post, so grab your favourite drinks guys and read the rest of my post:)
1. What do you think of long distance relationship?
Personally, I think that long distance relationship is what god gives us as a challenging part of our life. Long distance relationship is definitely not easy and that's true because you won't be able to kiss, hug, touch and feel him or her. So I think that the most important thing when you're in a long distance relationship is trust. TRUST is a big word, a massive word. I believe that lots of people lose their partner during long distance relationship because of trust. That's why if you choose to have a long distance relationship, then both of you must fully-trusted each other and not doubting one another or being too sensitive.
2. Is long distance relationship hard to manage or keep on?
It depends on how you manage it. You have to sacrifice some time for your partner so that she or he won't feel lonely. It also depends on how far you and your partner is. Like for some people, they live in the same country but different areas, this is also considered as long distance relationship but not that "long". At least they get to meet up two weeks once or once a month? This kind of long distance relationship is better than those who really is in a long long long distance relationship. For example, your partner is living in Asia and you are studying overseas in UK. You are a thousand miles away from him or her. The time difference is a problem and also, you can't meet up with him or her whenever you want. You can only "meet" through Skype or Facetime. So this is a super challenging relationship for both of you. Both of you have to be strong enough and fully-trusted each other.
3. How do you handle a long distance relationship?
First of all, you have to arrange your time for your partner. You have to find time to accompany him or her, like Skype with him or her or use social networks to text message him or her. Don't ever ever make him or her feel lonely. For me, I will at least Skype with him once a week or messaging each other for the whole day long. I'm the kinda sticky-type of girlfriend and my boyfriend is the don't-like-to-be-lonely guy. That's why we're a perfect match!=) Oh ya! Forgot to mention that I'm currently in a long distance relationship too. A super looooonnnggggg distance. But not everyone can handle long distance relationship, it requires trust, patience, tolerance, positive thinking, honesty and many more. So if you're not prepared yet, don't jump blindly into "long distance relationship".
4. Do you agree or disagree with long distance relationship?
It's not an agree or disagree matter. It all depends on the person's thinking. If you have positive thinking about long distance relationship then it might works on you. That's why some people can handle long distance relationship whereas some can't. It's not like you said you agree and everything will goes on well and perfect. Honestly, it's hard...it's like you're investing a huge amount of money into a business which you don't know whether it'll make you ended up broke or ended up as a rich ass. Because of not having your partner by your side and everything you do, she or he doesn't even know if you don't tell him or her, some people can't control themselves and fell in love with somebody else whereas some people like me won't give up so easily and believes that every relationship has their own story and meaning and whether it ended up like a fairytale or the "doom tale".
5. Do you think everyone is suitable to be in or have a long distance relationship?
Well...it's kinda similar to the 4th question. Hmm...I gotta say not everyone is suitable to be in or have a long distance relationship. If your willpower is not strong enough, then you'll be like sitting on a floating boat which is gonna tip over in any time. And that is way too dangerous people! You gotta think twice or thrice before stepping into the boat! Some of my friends broke up because of one of them is going overseas to study. If your relationship is not stable enough, YUP! You might ended up falling and rolling down the staircases. If you know what I meant! *smile* *wink*
6. Do you think long distance relationship is a waste of time?
Well...I gotta say think positive people! If you think it's a waste of time then don't be in one of it. Personally, I don't think long distance relationship is a waste of time because it can train myself to be even more patient and also treasure the person I love more and more. You know your beloved ones is not by your side and you have to stay strong to make sure everything goes on well. But I guess not that well because every relationship does have the "climax" part sometimes which means that couples do quarrel and argue and that is super normal because quarrel or argue will makes you love him or her even more:)
7. How far or how long is considered as a long distance relationship?
Okay...I've mentioned it at the 2nd question. Do you see the word long? Yes, you saw it I know. It means that you are thousands, millions and billions miles away. If you're living in the United States, long distance relationship can be considered as you're living in New York and your partner is living in California. Yup! That is an example for long distance relationship. If that doesn't counts as a long distance relationship for you then I think this might counts. The greatest example is me! I'm currently studying overseas in Ireland and my boyfie (boyfriend) is studying at Malaysia. Hohoho...this is way more than just a thousand miles man! It's million or maybe billions? That's too exaggerate but anyhow mine is 100% counted as a long distance relationship.
8. Do you think long distance relationship does works?
Some people said long distance relationship doesn't works, won't works and never works. Well that's not true guys! Long distance relationship does works but maybe doesn't works on each and every one of you. There are a lot of success couples which I meant are husband and wife now experiencing long distance relationship before and manage to overcome those hard days where you can only "meet" him or her through webcam. Sob sob...that's sad...So don't judge long distance relationship just by the name of it. I know the name sounds scary. Does it? Hmm.......It's not that scary guys:)
PS: If you still have any questions about long distance relationship, just email me guys and girls out there:) I'll help you as much as I can:)
Thanks for being such a patient person and read through this super long post.
I know people gets annoyed when they saw this kind of long post because they're so lazy to read.
Sorry guys.
Will separate it to part 1 and 2 next time:)
Again~
Any questions, don't be shy to email me:)
I'll be glad to help=)
X.O.X.O.
4. Do you agree or disagree with long distance relationship?
It's not an agree or disagree matter. It all depends on the person's thinking. If you have positive thinking about long distance relationship then it might works on you. That's why some people can handle long distance relationship whereas some can't. It's not like you said you agree and everything will goes on well and perfect. Honestly, it's hard...it's like you're investing a huge amount of money into a business which you don't know whether it'll make you ended up broke or ended up as a rich ass. Because of not having your partner by your side and everything you do, she or he doesn't even know if you don't tell him or her, some people can't control themselves and fell in love with somebody else whereas some people like me won't give up so easily and believes that every relationship has their own story and meaning and whether it ended up like a fairytale or the "doom tale".
5. Do you think everyone is suitable to be in or have a long distance relationship?
Well...it's kinda similar to the 4th question. Hmm...I gotta say not everyone is suitable to be in or have a long distance relationship. If your willpower is not strong enough, then you'll be like sitting on a floating boat which is gonna tip over in any time. And that is way too dangerous people! You gotta think twice or thrice before stepping into the boat! Some of my friends broke up because of one of them is going overseas to study. If your relationship is not stable enough, YUP! You might ended up falling and rolling down the staircases. If you know what I meant! *smile* *wink*
6. Do you think long distance relationship is a waste of time?
Well...I gotta say think positive people! If you think it's a waste of time then don't be in one of it. Personally, I don't think long distance relationship is a waste of time because it can train myself to be even more patient and also treasure the person I love more and more. You know your beloved ones is not by your side and you have to stay strong to make sure everything goes on well. But I guess not that well because every relationship does have the "climax" part sometimes which means that couples do quarrel and argue and that is super normal because quarrel or argue will makes you love him or her even more:)
7. How far or how long is considered as a long distance relationship?
Okay...I've mentioned it at the 2nd question. Do you see the word long? Yes, you saw it I know. It means that you are thousands, millions and billions miles away. If you're living in the United States, long distance relationship can be considered as you're living in New York and your partner is living in California. Yup! That is an example for long distance relationship. If that doesn't counts as a long distance relationship for you then I think this might counts. The greatest example is me! I'm currently studying overseas in Ireland and my boyfie (boyfriend) is studying at Malaysia. Hohoho...this is way more than just a thousand miles man! It's million or maybe billions? That's too exaggerate but anyhow mine is 100% counted as a long distance relationship.
8. Do you think long distance relationship does works?
Some people said long distance relationship doesn't works, won't works and never works. Well that's not true guys! Long distance relationship does works but maybe doesn't works on each and every one of you. There are a lot of success couples which I meant are husband and wife now experiencing long distance relationship before and manage to overcome those hard days where you can only "meet" him or her through webcam. Sob sob...that's sad...So don't judge long distance relationship just by the name of it. I know the name sounds scary. Does it? Hmm.......It's not that scary guys:)
PS: If you still have any questions about long distance relationship, just email me guys and girls out there:) I'll help you as much as I can:)
Thanks for being such a patient person and read through this super long post.
I know people gets annoyed when they saw this kind of long post because they're so lazy to read.
Sorry guys.
Will separate it to part 1 and 2 next time:)
Again~
Any questions, don't be shy to email me:)
I'll be glad to help=)
X.O.X.O.
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